How Anal Sex Is Different for Men and Women

Although the sex revolution came and went, there’s still some stigma surrounding certain kinks and fetishes. People across the world are enjoying their bodies in all sorts of ways, but some things feel better than others. Of course, we’re talking about anal sex. Stimulating your anus is one of the most popular ways to reach an orgasm.

Back in the day, anal play was a thing only gay people would do. Unfortunately, we all know how badly society treated the LGBTQ community. Even if it was a taboo back then, everyone was doing it. Yup, even the most conservative and close-minded people would stick their penises in anuses. And it’s no wonder why everyone loves it. It’s one of the strongest erogenous zones in both men and women, and playing with it brings us the most powerful of climaxes.

That is the reason why we want to talk a bit about it in this article. It’s the best-kept secret in front of your eyes (okay, it’s not in front of your eyes, but you get the point). But no matter how good it gets, you must do it the right way. Therefore, let’s delve deeper into the basics of anal for both guys and girls.

The Rising Popularity of Anal Play

Like we’ve said, just some years ago, anal sex was only a gay thing. Well, it wasn’t, but it was taboo for heterosexual couples to participate in it. People would do it regardless, but they’d never talk about it. Just like giving head, couples kept this their dirty little secret, pretending it was something only men who have sex with men did.

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But as society began to open up, so did our lives. The sexual revolution of the 20th century brought out every little kink and fetish from people’s bedrooms. And as such, booty play broke free into the mainstream. There was much debate over it, seeing how it’s the easiest way of contracting sexually transmitted infections.

And as art imitates life, porn began to feature it too. More and more, you’d see headlines like “Anal Adventures” or “Booty Action.” There was no reason not to do it since it’s so good, but the masses needed to understand that it requires some serious preparation. During the AIDS crisis of the ’80s, the gay community again took all the blame.

Luckily, nowadays, having some backroom fun is as normal as classic vaginal penetration. Sure, not everyone does it, but it’s safe to assume most couples who like to experiment in their dim-lighted bedrooms opt to try it at some point.

Heterosexual Couples Love Anal Sex Too

In case you didn’t know, when it comes to anal sex, the tables have pretty much turned. Not only do hetero couples participate in it, but guys also enjoy getting penetrated anally by their female partners. And yeah, it might sound strange since girls have no equipment for such drilling, but here’s where the sex toys come into play.

The best male anal sex comes when a girl uses a strap-on dildo and fucks his brains out. Sure, you don’t need toys (they’re optional) when it comes to gay anal sex. But for pegging, your girl’s got to get some firepower down there. Therefore, after she’s done queening you, she’s gonna strap some dick around her waist and blow your asshole apart.

The reason why it’s so popular is the fact that both male and female feeling of anal sex is equally good. Just like girls have their famous G-spot, guys have a prostate. And for them to have the best possible time in bed, anal orgasm through prostate stimulation is key. Applying pressure to the rectal walls, you’ll be pressing the male G-spot, and he’ll blow his load in no time.

All Those Sensations

If he’s on the receiving end, the male feeling anal sex will be experiencing something similar to your ordinary girl. Like we’ve said, if there’s pegging involved, he’ll reach an orgasm he’ll never forget. The whole thing comes from the prostate’s placement and the way his rectal canal reacts to being penetrated. It’s unforgettable!

But enough about men — girls love having anal sex as much as gays and heterosexuals. Some girls describe butt fucking like taking the best dump of your life. We know it might sound inappropriate, but it just feels good. The anal canal is full of nerve endings that lead to sensations. So, female anal sex feels just as good as vaginal intercourse.

But, anal comes with a cost. Like all good things, to have the best possible experience, you’ll need to put some effort into it. Also, it’s a bit sketchy when it comes to your sexual health. Therefore, you need to be careful too.

Reminders for Continual Enjoyment of Anal Play

It’s important to note that anal has some basic rules. Don’t worry, they’re not hard to follow, but it’s key you apply them to have a safe experience. We’d say there are three main things you need to check before you try it. So, let’s check ’em out, shall we?

Firstly, we can’t stress out how important it is to maintain hygiene before anal sex. Sure, you regularly bathe yourself, but that’s not enough. You’re dealing with bowel movement and a canal that’s primarily meant for waste disposal. That means that you must do an enema beforehand and clean your rectum of feces.

The second rule is — start slowly. Your anal canal is pretty sensitive and full of nerve endings. Therefore, you must ease yourself in. Applying some foreplay action before penetration is a must if you don’t want to be bleeding after anal sex. You can do it by slowly inserting butt plugs, starting with the smallest one first.

And finally, we’d combine two things in one — use condoms and use lots of lube. In case you’re into some anus to vagina action, change the damn condom. If you don’t do it, you risk contracting some nasty infection in both holes. And for the lube, it will help the foreign object slip inside with little to no fuss.